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How To Break Through Emotional Walls Based on Each Horoscope Sign

ARIES (March 21 - April 19)

To break down this signs walls, start talking to them about the things they're passionate about.

Keep the conversation upbeat and positive. Really listen to what they have to say as someone who is a good listener.

Don't interrupt them or feel the need to bring up your own examples.

TAURUS (April 20 - May 20)

First, know that you're going to have to be extremely patient; the process of breaking down a Taurus's walls is going to take a very long time.

They're not quick to trust and they're stubborn. When you speak with them, do so in ways that promote trust, respect, openness, and safety.

Taurus may feel the need to test you to see if your intentions are good.

GEMINI (May 21 - June 20)

Geminis are masters at communication, so, just talking isn't going to cut it, if you want to break through their walls.

You're probably gonna have to prove that you're trustworthy with your actions.

Let them tell you something in confidence and then keep it to yourself forever. Prove to them that if they confide in you, you won't turn around and hurt them.

CANCER (June 21 - July 22)

With this sign, the more you share of yourself, the more likely they’re going to allow their walls to come down.

When you sit down with a Cancer, make sure you center yourself, are grounded, and show your willingness to listen to what they're saying.

Cancer wants to be able to fully open up, but they have to trust that they won't get hurt in the process.

LEO (July 23 - August 22)

When trying to break through this signs emotional walls, be straightforward and let them know how important having a foundation of trust in a relationship is to you. 

Focus on them, hear what their response is, and then go from there.

If Leos take control of the conversation, follow their lead, and don't try to take it back.

Loyalty is also important to a Leo, so prove your loyalty by supporting them when they need it.

VIRGO (August 23 - September 22)

Virgos are too smart to open up to you if you haven't proven yourself to be reliable, authentic, and trustworthy.

Virgos are watchful and if you've been flaky in the past or told secrets, they'll remember, and the likelihood of them ever trusting you is slim.

If your past with them is limited or clean, show them you're a person of good character and would never betray them.

LIBRA (September 23 - October 22)

If you want to break through this signs walls, be there when they need you, even if it's inconvenient.

You're going to have to back up your claims of being trustworthy and loyal.

Don't be the person you think they want you to be — you have to be yourself. Show them your flawed but that your heart is in the right place.

SCORPIO (October 23 - November 21)

With Scorpio, getting them to open up to you isn't going to take swapping stories over a few beers — it will be a long journey.

Scorpios will test you, and even then they might not trust you.

Keep showing that you're legit and only want to have better communication and a deeper relationship.

Warning: when you've earned Scorpio's trust, treat it like the most valuable thing because if you betray them, they’ll come after you.

SAGITTARIUS (November 22 - December 21)

This sign will be grateful if you're honest and direct with them. Tell them where you're coming from in regards to having a relationship of sharing and trust.

Don't try to fool them or pretend you have other motives.

Be there when they need you, give sound advice if they ask for it, and don't get angry for something silly.

CAPRICORN (December 22 - January 19)

This sign can be somewhat distrusting, so if you want to get them to break down their walls, you have work cut out for you.

You have to wait for the right time, sit down with them and tell them how you feel.

Capricorns will feel flattered that you are interested in working on your relationship and hoping that with openness will come closeness.

They’re cautious but they're not closed down, so if you prove yourself trustworthy, they'll do their part.

AQUARIUS (January 20 - February 18)

Proving yourself trustworthy enough for this sign to break down their defenses and let you in is going to be tricky.

You can't just open up emotionally and hope they do the same.

You're gonna have to appeal to them intellectually and almost create a case where you give evidence on why they should let you in.

PISCES (February 19 - March 20)

If this sign has a fortress up, they've been hurt before and can't stand the thought of it happening again. They've given people too many chances.

You'll need to show them how they're safe with you and how trusting you, will make things better.

You may appeal to them through their artistic side, or show them how compassionate and caring you can be.