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HOROSCOPE SIGN: The Main Reason You Would Shut Someone Out

ARIES (March 21 - April 19)

This sign is always thriving, and they often close people out without even realizing that they're doing so. Aries are also so focused on work and social interaction that some relationships can get lost in the shuffle. It doesn't mean they don't want to be around you, but it does mean they may need some time to catch up. 

TAURUS (April 20 - May 20)

This sign hates to feel insecure and one thing that may drive them away from you, is if you make them feel this way. You may be doing this unintentionally, but it's affecting them to some degree. Although they tend to be very patient, this may be the one thing that really gets under their skin and prevents them from connecting with you.

GEMINI (May 21 - June 20)

If a Gemini is shutting you out its probably because they’re preoccupied with their own ups and downs. At the moment, you aren't fitting into their busy lives. Whatever they're going through or dealing with, you've landed on the outskirts. Sometimes a Gemini has a close circle of support that they rely on, and you probably didn’t make the cut. It's not necessarily your fault, but right now they can only prioritize so much, and you just didn’t make the list. 

CANCER (June 21 - July 22)

A Cancer will shut you out when they are falling apart. Although they love being connected with others, sometimes their emotions run too hot and they can't connect with you. For whatever reason, if a Cancer is overwhelmed and they may just need space to figure that out before they come running to you. Just be there when they're ready to come back.

LEO (July 23 - August 22

If a Leo is shutting you out, be prepared to be out for a while. A Leo is stubborn and driven, meaning if they're holding a grudge they will hang on to that for some time. A Leo is shutting you out because for some reason, they feel like you've slighted or ignored them, and they can't stand it. Turning it around on you, is one way they can get your attention back without admitting that they want it. 

VIRGO (August 23 - September 22)

A Virgo takes little things very much to heart, which means that you may have done something small that really hurt them in some way. This little moment may seem like nothing to you, but a Virgo will see it as signs of worse things to come, so they're distancing themselves before it happens. They'll need re-assurance and effort from you to change their mind.

LIBRA (September 23 - October 22)

For Libras, they’re not the biggest fans of being alone, which means if they're shutting you out, they have some other form of support along the way. However, if they do take that step and start ghosting you, they've been driven pretty far to do so. BECAUSE they’re so fair minded and peaceful, Libras cutting you off means that you've been pushing them to do it. They’ve probably given you chance after chance, but enough is enough, and that's where you're at now.

SCORPIO (October 23 - November 21)

If a Scorpio is shutting you out it’s because you messed up, Big time. Or at least, that’s what Scorpio thinks. Because Scorpios are naturally suspicious and jealous, they may interpret a situation incorrectly, with you playing the role of a villain, even if that isn't truly the case. A little advice, approach with caution, but be honest about the situation, and they'll appreciate the fact that you're fighting for the relationship.

SAGITTARIUS (November 22 - December 21)

This sign is very much the free spirit, leading them to drift in and out of lives without much thought for what they leave behind.They may be leaving your life, or taking a smaller role, but that doesn't really mean there's a reason for it. It's just life. 

CAPRICORN (December 22 - January 19

If a Capricorn is icing you out its because they’re STUBBORN. This is probably the most stubborn sign. They dislike everything at one point or another, it's just your turn to be in the hot seat for a bit. The best advice, is to hold out for a while and see if they confront the issue or simply move on. 

AQUARIUS (January 20 - February 18)

If this sign is icing you out its because they’re too caught up in their own pursuits to be a very effective communicator sometimes. The best advice is to wait a while, and then reaching out to them. Chances are that they've been busy with work and life, and chasing their other passions. You're just on the sidelines of those projects. 

PISCES (February 19 - March 20)

A better way to explain the situation is that they're shutting themselves away from you. Not that they are icing you out.Sometimes they pity themselves for the fact that you've been paying less attention to themselves. They either need to focus on their life or they feel like they need to put themselves out of your way, if they get the vibe that you don’t want them around.