ARIES (March 21 - April 19)
Aries fear being scolded about something. Many don’t know this but this sign likes to get away with bad behavior. So, when they're called out on it, it causes mad conflict because they don’t like getting caught. And they spend a long time, fearing that they might be revealed and confronted.
TAURUS (April 20 - May 20)
They fear being vulnerable and weakened by love. Taurus know that throwing themselves into a relationship can bring great experiences in life, but they’re also very cautious to not fall so deeply in love, to the point where they lose themselves and become weak.
GEMINI (May 21 - June 20)
Making decisions is what Gemini’s fear in relationships. If a Gemini is in a relationship and has to make a big decision — something like getting married, or even divorced — they’ll put off that decision for as long as possible with hopes that it’ll go away. Geminis do love progress, but they’d rather go along with someone else’s plan than their own.
CANCER (June 21 - July 22)
Their biggest fear in a relationship is lack of security, both in love and in life. The problem here is that Cancers dwell on it so such, to the point where they end up attracting insecure situations to themselves. Cancer’s are happy when they’re loved and taken care of, and they worry about the ending throughout the entire process.
LEO (July 23 - August 22)
Leo’s biggest fear in a relationship is being forgotten or not even considered. They also, fear not being special. To be a Leo and to feel average is like a curse to them. So if you witness a Leo overdoing it, it’s probably because they’re having a nervous breakdown and might think you forgot about them.
VIRGO (August 23 - September 22)
Virgos fear being disappointed in a relationship. Mostly by themselves, but by their partner as well. It’s not so much that Virgo remains true to the stereotype of being perfection-seeking judges, it’s just that they’ve experienced loss in the past and they don’t want to hurt again. Virgos fear having what they love ruined, that sometimes they end up ruining it themselves first.
LIBRA (September 23 - October 22)
Libra’s have an intense fear of losing control. We know they’re kindhearted and compassionate by nature, but they end up giving up a lot of their own freedom for the sake of others. Then they find themselves giving almost too much, that they lose control of all things that need to be handled.
SCORPIO (October 23 - November 21)
They fear being stationary in a relationship. They’re definitely known as go-getters. Scorpios will do whatever’s necessary to create the life they want. However, when a Scorpio cannot affect change, they definitely suffer in relationships.
SAGITTARIUS (November 22 - December 21)
They fear blending in, when they're in a relationship. Sagittarius will never accept that they’re anything less than unique and they’ll walk away from any situation that has them feeling basic. Their biggest fear is having someone, like their lover, think they’re ordinary. And they'll fight it too.
CAPRICORN (December 22 - January 19)
Naturally, this sign is the defender of the weak and what they fear the most is being silenced in a relationship. Capricorns want their say to matter, so don’t even think about shutting them down. They’ll just make themselves even louder and put themselves in the spotlight. So if you’re in a relationship with a Capricorn, just know that they fear not being heard.
AQUARIUS (January 20 - February 18)
This sign fears not having a choice when they’re in a relationship. They do NOT want you to make any choices for them. Even if they can’t decide right away, let them figure it out. They absolutely fear having that choice taken away from them.
PISCES (February 19 - March 20)
They fear rejection in their relationships. A lot of people fear this but when it comes to pisces, this fears turns into torture and pain. Pisces aren't trying to be unappealing, it’s just that, this is how they express their fear: they cry and whine. Sometimes, Pisces will remove themselves from the equation before you even get a chance to reject them.